So last night after working until 9 PM again I get home and realize that the rolls I knew I had in my cabinet to make sloppy Joe's were moldy. So as soon as Kate pulled in I left in her car to get new ones. I make my way to the WaWa and of course, no rolls. I go to Superfresh slightly irritated and grab rolls. As I walk the isle towards the cash register there is an Indian man in front of me pushing one of those double wide racing car shopping karts. His child is hanging off the side in a standing position screaming with excitement like an animal. I think to myself as I dodge left and slide right to try and maneuver around this behemoth shopping kart, why is his child out grocery shopping at 10 at night?
As I make my final vein attempt to get around this guy and make my way to the self check out and exit the store as quickly as possible the man makes a sudden sharp turn right in front of me. He turns into a lane that is not even open. His child flies off the side of the kart and falls right in front of me. His head hitting the floor makes the sound of a bowling ball dropped on cement floor covered with linoleum.
So now I am in a difficult situation. Do I stop and help the screaming child up, or do I step over him and continue on my way to the self check out and get the hell out of there?
Well I chose the latter, and as I paid for my dumb rolls I realized that maybe I should have helped him out. When I got home I explained the story to Kate and judging by her reaction, as expected she would have stopped and helped the kid. So now I feel a little guilty about the situation. I decided to weigh the consequences and look at the situation in a few other perspectives.
If I had stopped to help the child, what would it look like? I am a single, irritated man walking through the grocery store with rolls in my hand. Do I really think the child would welcome my assistance? The most likely scenario that would play out is that I would have scared the poor screaming child thus making an even more tragic experience.
Now from the fathers point of view, a single irritated man walking through the store picking up this child that I don't know to help him off the floor. I know I would not want some random man picking my son up off the floor. What if the kid was seriously injured? I'm no doctor. So the way I see it, I could have potentially avoided a lawsuit.
So in the end I think I made the correct decision even though I do feel a little bad. I am glad I work with computers.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Friday, March 20, 2009
Seasons
As I continue to age and snow falls less across the region spring is quickly becoming my next favorite season (next to fall of course) and here is why
Phillies
NCAA Basketball March Madness
Bar B Ques!
Free Ritas
Shamrock Shakes
That 72 degree day that seems to emerge out of nowhere
Feeling like a kid in school instead of an adult at work on that day
Driving with the windows down and the radio up
Landscaping and gardening
Those wam nights where you can sit outside and talk to your neighbors without shivering
Thunderstorms
Opening the windows at home and getting fresh air in
Naps on warm Saturday afternoons with a nice breeze
Tax refunds
Short sleeved shirts
Not waiting 30 minutes for your car to warm up in the morning
Doing activities outside
Making plans for summer vacations
Daylight savings time
Getting home from work before dark
Taking the dog for walks again
The fact that spring is a natrual aphrodisiac
Flowers and trees blooming
For these reasons and more I love spring. Have I missed anything?
Phillies
NCAA Basketball March Madness
Bar B Ques!
Free Ritas
Shamrock Shakes
That 72 degree day that seems to emerge out of nowhere
Feeling like a kid in school instead of an adult at work on that day
Driving with the windows down and the radio up
Landscaping and gardening
Those wam nights where you can sit outside and talk to your neighbors without shivering
Thunderstorms
Opening the windows at home and getting fresh air in
Naps on warm Saturday afternoons with a nice breeze
Tax refunds
Short sleeved shirts
Not waiting 30 minutes for your car to warm up in the morning
Doing activities outside
Making plans for summer vacations
Daylight savings time
Getting home from work before dark
Taking the dog for walks again
The fact that spring is a natrual aphrodisiac
Flowers and trees blooming
For these reasons and more I love spring. Have I missed anything?
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